I'm Wilma. Girl. No dragon tattoo. I love theatre, fashion, music that makes me orgasm and taking pictures. I have split myself between three places (London-Stockholm-Tallinn), but my current hub is Tallinn. Wherever my circus goes, there's always a party. If the party does end, I watch cat videos and blog about it all. Check out my yearly summaries below to get to know me a bit better. Header: Mandel Photography

If you have any questions: hemafruu@gmail.com.

Friday, September 30, 2022

Wilma Circus in September 2022

With a delay, here is the Circus Tour in September

1st of September

2nd of September
Sleeping kid, working hubby and tonnes of shit in the back:

3rd of September
Moomin cartoon and "Breathe in, breathe out"

4th of September
Frozen veggies and loose candy – the nutrition role-model:

5th of September
"I'm doing yoga, right?" 

6th of September
The helmet keeps the doctor away:

7th of September
The hetero cringe in the woods:

8th of September
Proper IKEA store opened in Estonia and we now live there.

9th of September
Fred was sad that we went to IKEA without him, so we fixed it:

10th of September
Anonymous Mom Group: 

11th of September
Seafood pasta is our battery filler:

12th of September
Supergirls just fly:

13th of September
The coolest kids on the parking lot:

14th of September
Taking the lift alone:

15th of September A
The walker and the pooper:

15th of September B
That sports bra and fancy skirt kinda ending of the day:

16th of September
Sometimes lose, always win:

17th of September
The family portrait:

18th of September
Wilma Circus dress rental & friends club:

19th of September
A day for the history books.
Funeral of the Queen Elizabeth II and the first day of gym for Wilma:

20th of September
"Quick, no time to grab the camera, let's make a quick phone selfie":

21st of September
The gloves ruined our camouflage: 

23nd of September

23rd of September
Never forget that Golden Girl Blanche Elizabeth Devereaux initials were BED:

24th of September
Without the pictures of golden leaves autumn didn't happen:

25th of September
The dinner is served:

26th of September
On a hunt to find horse chestnuts.
Important goals in life:

27th of September
Inflation ripped my pants:

28th of September
The gang of orbikud ja torbikud:

29th of September
"Age of Empires used to have 13 civilisations" 
"Ok, grandma, let's get you to bed":

30th of September
Being in workout clothes counts as workout:

Thursday, September 01, 2022

5 divorce-free years. The last days of summer in Haapsalu.

The family of Müürivahe shares more love with us than perhaps our blood relatives do. Their cute yellow house in Haapsalu welcomes us and gives us dose of serenity. 
*humbly takes a bow*

 Straight after annual Ian's birthday (20152016201720192020, 2022– 
I packed up Fred, myself and Pebbles to spend a week in the town of great pleasure.

Second year in a row, Fred and I celebrated our wedding anniversary there. 
Still no divorce, whoohoo!
*disclamer: the post contains high amount of baby pictures, because Pebbles is just so damn cute.

Anna Wintour who?
Remember the name – Pebbles Circus, the new style royalty: 

I got no money in my pocket, 
just 10 kilos on my shoulders:

For the sake of clarity – I was indeed wearing pants:

She is kind, she is smart, she is claiming her throne:

Without any exceptions, for over a year now, Pebbles goes to sleep at 7PM.
And that means self-care time, boyfriend-girlfriend time or in this case
take-a-bicycle-trip-around-Haapsalu time:

Wilma: *sips her tea*
Pebbles: Her palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy
There's vomit on her sweater already, mom's spaghetti 🎶

8AM and not a morning person 
(thank you Fred for taking the morning shifts):

Buy her toys, show her cartoons,
yet stones on the ground are always the more fascinating objects:

Fun little lollipop 
triple dipped in chocolate flakes:

Parenthood rule #1
Less power tripping, more clear leadership
Parenthood rule #2
Hold hands if not sure what to do:


The view that makes my heart and uterus melt:


Random cheap secondhand stroller, wooden clogs and orange juice.
Messy yet fun summer cocktail:

One man down from all the playing:

Beach peach:

Thinking about how it's the last days of summer with 30°C,
the day after the temperature drops 15 degrees:

Neighbour Mömmi patrolling:

This is how the crew invites me out to play:

We tried to explain her the concept of 'summer ending – season changing':

Cancel all my meetings and my aromatherapy, my psychotherapy, my osteopath, my homeopath, my crystal reading – 
I got things to do outside

Not a single child nor dog was hurt during the kiss:

Šarik might be deaf and slow, 
but he has loads of willpower:

Picked up a blossom from the flower bed:

Batman and Robin:

Yes, parenthood empties batteries,
but day by day I am more happier than before.
I enjoy her growing up: 

Moon cookies and milk:

Holding his poop, because this garden has zero cmof lawn.
Šarik asked outside to do the number two:

Just day before it was summer,
on that day it was 'hello autumn wardrobe':

Känd & käbi:

Our wedding anniversary tradition is to eat at Kärme Küülik.
To our shock it was closed on the 1st of September, so we had to drop by days earlier.
Introducing Pebbles to Italian cuisine:

Fred showing her how masonry oven looks like,
the source of quality food:

Walking home from restaurant:


The days went by, the clothes got thicker:

Together searching for that hedgehog that lives nearby:


The cleaning brigade:

Comparing the warm pictures from the start of the post with this,
it seems like months apart:

*trigger warning*
Still using pacifiers? Still wearing diapers? Still not talking? Still drinking breast milk? Still not walking?
If the kid is fed and taken care of, then keep your pointless opinions to yourself:

Messing with gravity is the best she knows:

2021 vs 2022
From stroller rocker to walker (2023 talker):

1st of September, 
Kids go to school + Fred & Wilma celebrate 5 years of divorce free years:

My family (the teddy is also a proud member):

"Today you are spending time with grandmother, 
because mom & dad want to hold hands and make kissy-kissy":

Känd & käbi vol II

Secret to a great relationship?
Don't be a dick and don't date dicks:

As the traditional Kärme Küülik was closed,
we tested out Karja Kuus:

This relationship started with a prawn salad
and it continues with seafood pasta:

No rush to go home:

Granny Premium Deluxe service with the highest customer feedback:

Packing our bags and putting building blocks back to their place,
bye-bye Haapsalu:

Family Circus ♥ Family Müürivahe